Family...makes you scratch your head

Well its been what seems like a million years since I've posted a blog. There has obviously been a lot going on in my life, and with that has made me have an epiphany.

So as we all know by now, my dad has been in the hospital for 3 weeks. Its been one of the most stressful times of my life. Been going to see him twice a day everyday for 3 weeks. Having to put my life and my boys lives on hold while helping my dad make decisions regarding his health. I've had days of crying because I just don't know how to get everything done. Its been insane. But at the end of the day, its my dad. And right now he needs me.

If you don't know by now, I'm not a religious person. I personally find it hokey, and kind of ridiculous, but that's beside the point. My family I guess you could say is pretty religious. They do the whole church thing, bible study thing etc. Which is cool. To each their own. While I like to believe that "Christians" are supposed to be helpful to other people, regardless of religious belief, I kind of find them to be the opposite.

During these past 3 weeks, not one family member has offered to help. I got a few "I'll pray for you", but not one person asked how they could help. Not one person asked if I needed help with the kids, or offered to make a dinner knowing I've been at the hospital everyday till after 8pm. Why is that? Everyone preaches about how important family is, yet when it comes down to it, they really aren't. During this tough time I've had friends from high school whom i havent seen in years offer to watch my kids for a few hours, offer to bring food over knowing I haven't had time to cook, and even asked how I was doing after my car accident. But where was my family? The ones who are supposed to be your biggest supporters? No where to be found.

That my friends was my epiphany. Through this time I really found out who is truly there for you. So to my friends who have offered your time to help me and my little family, you are truly appreciated! Just know that if you ever need me for anything, I'm here for you. You guys are the best!